It’s really hard to experience another person’s needs when you are speeding down the freeway in the car next to them, and they are also speeding down the freeway
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this is what the internet does when it is approached for relationships. It allows the human mind to blissfully race through a gigantic network of mental roads, zillions of them (at the speed of light).

The human body has cycles of life that it grows out of into the next day, every day (some are hereditary cycles, some foods eaten, water and liquids consumed, places, magnetic pollutions, weather, etc.) These can’t be given over the internet in an honest way, because the two cars are speeding down the freeway of the mind and has left the body behind.

Some humans have made marvelous adaptations to computer life, but some have not. I consider such ventures extremely dangerous. You can’t see, feel, touch, smell, or truly know that other person. Scientists have discovered an organ IN the human nose that deciphers sexual pheromones (in some humans the organs are larger, some smaller and they kind of resemble little beans). We don’t know it, but we are programmed to partner for at least 2 yrs. to produce an offspring.

Once that occurs many couples separate if “was just about natural sexual needs”. The human mind, though, is aware of the needs for love on a longer time scale than that of pheromones. I truly enjoy sex w/my partner but it took patience with experiences and divorces, finding me in each experience, and then a lot more direct experiences.

There are potentials out there but media saturation may ruin a lot of chances because it’s full of the addictions of the mind, so media has to be shoved aside regularly (and I do mean shoved!!!). The internet and other media outlets are a reality composed of trillions minds driving on roads made of variations of light energy that can be shut off w/a button or unplugged, whatever.

Having real love is nothing like that at all. Love is rich, deep, and full of life, so when you have it with that somebody, then it continues to make more life for a couple before, during, and after sex. It includes everything.

Melanie Griffith made an interesting movie when she was a young woman, It’s called “Cherry 3,000″ (or possibly “Cherry 2,000″). The world has gone through another war and the surviving humans live in a smaller group, some afford android partners. One young man accidentally shorts out his female android partner (a small disc runs the program). So he hires Melanie Griffith’s character to take him to Las Vegas, buried under sand and in a no-human zone. You may grasp some ideas by seeing this old SF flick, and it has an interesting ending. Maybe this movie will help you somehow. It was made before cell phones, internet.